A Month Of Kindness
In October 2017, the TOS ran a “Campaign for Kindness” in which members were invited to perform extra little (or big) acts of kindness. The results are in, and they’re awesome:
- I rescued two worms that had washed onto the sidewalk after a heavy rain. Had they stayed on the sidewalk in the sun, they would have baked to death. I put them back in the grass—within a few seconds, they had wriggled to the ground and began burrowing into the dirt.
- I carried a heavy box for a pregnant coworker and loaded it into her car.
- I let another driver into the lane in front of me.
- I found a bug in my house and gently took it outside.
- I watered my neighbor’s flowers while she was away.
- On my days off I provide free plumbing and electrical help to whoever needs it. My community has many elderly people and I've been busier than busy.
- I collected new socks and donated them to the homeless.
- I assembled ziplock bags of essentials like water, snacks, and socks and gave them to the homeless.
- Despite the fact my daughter is in dialysis she is pushing herself to start a kidney support group to help others…she is one awesome young lady!
- Every Fall since 2002, I’ve donated dictionaries to 3 rd graders at 27 schools in Chicago’s western suburbs. I do a 35 minute talk to teach them how to use their new dictionary. It’s so important to get the kids to start using this book while they’re still young.
- During a conference, I brought a wedge cushion and an exercise mat from home to one of the participants who is 8+ months pregnant because I could see she was uncomfortable. She was very grateful and used them all weekend.
- My co-worker cleaned his girlfriend's garage so she would give me a free massage when I desperately needed one.
- I work at a school. A lady called and asked how to pay off a lunch balance account. I asked her the name of the child, and she said she didn't have a name in mind. She wanted to pay it forward to the most delinquent account.
- Several years ago I started to carry in the empty garbage cans of my neighbors on garbage day. I figured that would make life a little easier for both my elderly neighbors and also those who work. Once they realized what was going on, they seemed appreciative, which was a nice reaction but not necessary. I did it because it helped the people around me, and that was rewarding enough.
- In October, I raised $1,764 for St. Balderick's, leaders in funding research for childhood cancers. I also raised $200 and donated my hair to Hair We Share so they could make a wig for a child who lost their hair due to cancer treatments.
- When I see Facebook posts by rescue groups about animals in need of emergency care, I am not always able to send money, so I have started doing the Ho’oponopono Prayer as well as long distance Reiki on the animals.
- My friend was having lots of medical problems, and his birthday was near. I alerted his friends and asked them to call him, not just post on Facebook. He was thrilled to talk to so many friends that he normally wouldn't have. I think those things really matter—I’m sure he felt the love.
- I dropped an anonymous card to a Veteran today. I walk by his house at the lake and appreciate listening to his music, looking at his garden, chickens, dog, and all of the flags he has out. So I just sent a note of appreciation.
- I frequently call my US Senators to ask them to vote NO on any horse slaughter language and keep the horses wild.
- I helped a baby cockroach out of the bathtub (and later off the floor) so I didn't step on him.
- I shut off the shower while soaping up to conserve water.
- I helped a spider move to a better location in the kitchen.
- I loaned a former Lodge member some emergency money.
- I sent daily thoughts of healing to the Caribbean and to Mexico.
- I gave the bus driver a little wave goodbye every evening.
- I sent my indoor houseplants thoughts of love and appreciation most days.
- I helped shuttle a lodge member who can no longer drive back and forth from meetings.
- I deliberately use humor and teasing in my office most days to foster good feelings among coworkers and refocus attention from insignificant annoyances to loftier things.
- I sent hope for compassion/wisdom to leaders and members of the TS, TOS, and ES every morning in meditation.
Thanks to everyone who makes the world a better place with their little (and big) acts of kindness! As Dr. Seuss famously taught, “Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It’s not.”